A Pocket of Peace

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"A Pocket of Peace," a profile of Hartsdale Pet Cemetery, in Westchester, New York, is the cover story for November's American Cemetery & Cremation magazine. 

It was a delight to learn more about this very special place, and to see the outpouring of love at every turn.

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