Bridgehampton Cemetery

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Did a bit of cemetery exploring out east last weekend despite the unusually cold temps. Bridgehampton Cemetery --a quintessential churchyard cemetery --is located between two beautiful Protestant churches.

The cemetery serves not only as a resting place for those who have passed but also as a reminder of the community’s growth. It is fascinating to think that, as I explored the grounds, families and individuals have returned to this very place for generations to honor their loved ones. I imagined them gathering to commemorate anniversaries, share stories, and keep the memory of their ancestors alive. It’s a continuity that truly embodies the essence of community ties.

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