Welcome to My World

As a writer, author, taphophile, and funeral director, I bring a unique perspective to my craft. My passion for the written word and my deep understanding of the funeral industry allow me to create– what I hope will be –captivating stories about little-known people and pieces of history. One of the ways I do that is through my cemetery profiles, one of my writing specialties. Exploring and photographing cemetery architecture is one of my favorite pastimes. My interest stems from my career as a funeral director, a career that reinforces the importance of cemeteries daily. In addition to their primary purpose of commemorating those who have gone before us, cemeteries offer continued connection to our loved ones, to history, and our community. What’s more, they contain a wealth of stories, stories I have told –and continue to tell– through my writing. I have also served as a cemetery tour guide and delight in introducing others to what I’ve learned there.

Death is My Life

As a funeral director, my daily work and my deep-rooted passion for history have intertwined, inspiring me to share my insights on cemeteries. Here are some of the personal motivations that drive my exploration:

Understanding History:

With over three decades of experience in the funeral industry, I intimately understand the significance of cemeteries. One of my aims in writing about cemeteries is to reacquaint people with history.

I am deeply aware that cemeteries are not just physical spaces, but they are also repositories of history. They hold the lives, stories, and invaluable contributions of individuals who have shaped not just New York City, but also America. My curiosity led me to delve into the history of some of New York's most storied cemeteries, including well-known ones like Green-Wood in Brooklyn and lesser-known gems like the African Burial Ground on Duane Street in Manhattan. For instance, did you know that Green-Wood Cemetery was the site of the Battle of Long Island during the American Revolutionary War? Or that the African Burial Ground is the oldest and largest known excavated burial ground in North America for both free and enslaved Africans? 

Capturing Reverence and Architecture:

My book, "Gardens of Stone," profiles more than 30 cemeteries across five boroughs. I wanted to capture the historical context, architectural beauty, and unique features of these resting places. Cemeteries, with their gravestones, mausoleums, and landscapes, tell stories beyond mere dates--they reveal the artistry and craftmanship of the past.

Demystifying Death and Fear:

Traditionally, there was a fear associated with cemeteries, fueled by misconceptions about diseases like Yellow Fever being lined to cemetery stenches. My belief is that cemeteries can transcend their traditional association with fear and sadness. They have the potential to become places for reflection, learning, and connection, offering a transformative experience to those who visit. 

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