Christmas in the Cemetery

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 As a funeral director,  I am well aware that there is never a good time to lose someone we love. But a loss seems particularly difficult to bear --or recall-- when the holiday season is upon us. All around us, people are absorbed by "the magic of Christmas," and there is an ever-present sense of gaiety. But not for those who mourn. Yet, many of those people find a sense of solace by visiting cemeteries and decorating family graves and mausoleums for the season. Seeing such poignant displays of love and remembrance, reinforce the continued connection that cemeteries offer.


Here's a smattering of some of the beautifully decorated --whether with a small ornamented tree or a simple holiday wreath --mausoleums and graves I've come across at Christmastime. 









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