Gardens of Stone --- A Cemetery Blog by Alexandra Kathryn Mosca

Passed this sepulchral photograph on a visit to St, Michael cemetery, in Queens. Such a beautiful face.  Enameling, was a popular memorialization practice in which images of a deceased were transferred and affixed onto ceramic or porcelain and then attached to a gravestone.  A walk through older sections of cemeteries will likely yield a number of enameled portraits, some formally posed and others more candid. Many of the men are depicted wearing suits while the women often sported hats (as above).

  Sometimes some of the most interesting finds are right in your own backyard. Such was the case when I recently went exploring in Roslyn Cemetery, one of my local cemeteries. It's been a while since I visited, and I saw some new monuments and revisited some older ones.  While the cemetery is small in size, it is filled with history. So much so, that it is listed on the National Register of Historic Places. It is the final resting place of William Cullen Bryant, Christopher Morley,  Bessie Abott and Thomas Watson Story, and Frances Hodgson Burnett, and her son Lionel.  The grounds are diverse with --often unique -- memorials to those of many cultures, including Russian, Iranian, and Asian Indians.  Thomas Waldo Story followed in the footsteps of his father William Wetmore Story, finding success as a sculptor. He was married to opera singer,  Bessie Abbott. Poet William Cullen Bryant is buried beneath an obelisk with his wife, Fanny. 

  Lionel Burnett was the son of writer Frances Hodgson Burnett. He served as the model for the title character in her most famous children's book Little, Lord Fauntleroy, published in 1885. He is buried in Roslyn Cemetery, on Long Island, close to the grave of his mother. There's more about the cemetery in My Cemetery Travels.

  The Stewart mausoleum was a collaboration between McKim, Mead & White (as in Stanford), once the largest architectural firm in the world, and renowned sculptor Augustus Saint-Gaudens. In the 1800's, the Stewart family were major patrons of the arts. Their aesthetic tastes are reflected in their final resting place.

 I came across this tombstone on a recent walk through Green-Wood Cemetery's Public Lots., and share it here on Valentine's Day 

  Mayor Edward I. Koch died ten years ago today. His funeral took place three days later. He was one of my favorite mayors and it was an honor to attend his funeral, and write about it for 'American Funeral Director' magazine. The turnout for him was huge. Every seat in cavernous Temple Emanu-El was taken, and many people stood outside in what was a frigid day. Having been present at countless funerals in my capacity as a funeral director, and many high profile funerals, as a writer, people often ask me if I have a favorite. If I had to choose, it would be the funeral of Mayor Koch. It had everything a good funeral should have, as well as one of the most moving moments I ever witnessed at a funeral. At the conclusion of the service, Mayor Koch's casket was shouldered down the aisle to the tune of 'New York New York' to a standing ovation and thunderous applause.

  Soupy Sales (Milton Supman) was an actor, comedian, and popular radio & television personality. The Soupy Sales Show, which ran from 1953–1966, was one of the most popular children's shows of the time. It's comedy sketches often ended with Sales getting hit with a pie in his face. That became his trademark. After the show ended, Sales became a regular panelist on the revival of What's My Line? introducing him to a new where a new generation.

  Joseph S. Carreau was a founding partner of Carreau and Snedeker, a NYSE member firm. Both Carreau and his first wife, Alys Sinclair, with whom he had two daughters, were born in 1900. Interestingly, Alys died in 1925, at the age of 25, and Joseph died at 72, in 1972.

  As a funeral director,  I am well aware that there is never a good time to lose someone we love. But a  loss  seems particularly  difficult  to bear --or recall-- when the holiday season is upon us. All around us, people are absorbed by "the magic of Christmas," and there is an ever-present sense of  gaiety . But not for those who mourn. Yet, many of  those  people find a sense of solace by visiting  cemeteries  and  decorating  family graves and mausoleums for the season. Seeing such poignant displays of love and remembrance, reinforce the continued connection that cemeteries offer. Here's a smattering of some of the beautifully decorated --whether with a small ornamented tree or a simple holiday wreath --mausoleums and graves I've come across at Christmastime. 

Clement Clarke Moore graduated first in his class from Columbia College and was a professor of classics at the General Theological Seminary in New York. In 1822, he wrote 'A Visit From St. Nicholas' ('Twas The Night Before Christmas') for his children. It became one of the most endearing and enduring Christmas poems. Every December, Manhattan's Church of the Intercession, located on the grounds of Trinity Church Cemetery, has a Clement Clarke Moore Candlelight Service to celebrate his poem. The service ends with a walk to Moore's grave.